{"id":11417,"date":"2020-06-29T07:35:18","date_gmt":"2020-06-29T05:35:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lekolin.org\/?p=11417"},"modified":"2020-06-29T07:35:18","modified_gmt":"2020-06-29T05:35:18","slug":"gunumuz-acisindan-yasadigimiz-sorunlar-toplumsal-sorunlardir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lekolin.org\/ku\/gunumuz-acisindan-yasadigimiz-sorunlar-toplumsal-sorunlardir\/","title":{"rendered":"G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz A\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z Sorunlar Toplumsal Sorunlard\u0131r"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Kad\u0131n katliamlar\u0131 ve \u015fiddet h\u0131z\u0131ndan bir \u015fey kaybetmeden hatta her g\u00fcn biraz daha katlanarak devam ediyor. En son Nisan ay\u0131 bilan\u00e7osu 34 kad\u0131n\u0131n katledildi\u011fi ve 24 kad\u0131n\u0131n \u015fiddete maruz b\u0131rak\u0131larak katledilmek \u00fczere uygulamalara maruz kald\u0131\u011f\u0131na y\u00f6nelik payla\u015f\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Bir o kadar da May\u0131s ay\u0131 bilan\u00e7osu var tabi. \u015eimdi bu konuda \u00e7ok yaz\u0131yor, anlat\u0131yor, de\u011ferlendiriyor her kes ve her kesim. Ama \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm noktas\u0131nda eksiklikler ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum ben. Beni bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceye iten duygunun ba\u015f\u0131nda ayn\u0131 \u015feylerin s\u00fcrekli olarak farkl\u0131 bi\u00e7imlerde tekrarlanmas\u0131 gelmekte. Yani demek istedi\u011fim sorunlar\u0131m\u0131z, ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z, kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z, g\u00f6r\u00fcp duyduklar\u0131m\u0131z \u00fc\u00e7 a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 be\u015f yukar\u0131 hep ayn\u0131. Nedenlerini soruyorum tabi bir kad\u0131n olarak kendime. Neden kad\u0131n olarak ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bu katliam, \u015fiddet, taciz, tecav\u00fcz olaylar\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda m\u00fccadelemizde bir ad\u0131m ileri gitmiyoruz ki h\u0131zl\u0131 ve keskin sonu\u00e7lar alal\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Kad\u0131n katliam\u0131na, k\u0131r\u0131m\u0131na sebep olan olaylar zincirine bakacak olursak mesela daha yarat\u0131c\u0131 ve sonu\u00e7 al\u0131c\u0131 y\u00f6ntemler geli\u015ftirmek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor insan. \u00d6zellikle kad\u0131n\u0131n savunma mekanizmas\u0131n\u0131 olu\u015fturmas\u0131 bu d\u00f6nemde ve ya\u015fanan ger\u00e7eklikler kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda hayati olmaktad\u0131r. Kad\u0131n \u00e7ocuk do\u011furup do\u011furmama karar\u0131n\u0131 kendisi vermiyor, veremiyor mesela. Kiminle hayat\u0131n\u0131 payla\u015faca\u011f\u0131na karar veremiyor \u00f6rne\u011fin. Ya\u015fam\u0131 nas\u0131l ya\u015fayaca\u011f\u0131na, kiminle nas\u0131l ya\u015fayaca\u011f\u0131na ili\u015fkin karar g\u00fcc\u00fc, iradesi yok. Asl\u0131nda en do\u011fal hakk\u0131 olan ya\u015fam\u0131, hayat\u0131 bile ya\u015fay\u0131p ya\u015famayaca\u011f\u0131 konusu bile kendisinin iradesiyle geli\u015fen bir durum de\u011fildir. \u00a0Ben olay\u0131n, konunun daha do\u011frusu, bu sorunlar\u0131n sadece kad\u0131n sorunu olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 asl\u0131nda toplumsal sorunlar\u0131n en derin bir bi\u00e7imde kad\u0131n yoluyla bu bi\u00e7imde d\u0131\u015fa vurdu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmekteyim. Yan\u0131l\u0131yor da olabilirim tabi.<\/p>\n<p>Bir ayda 34 kad\u0131n katliam\u0131 ne demek, 24 kad\u0131n\u0131n katledilmek istenmesi ve \u015fiddete maruz b\u0131rak\u0131lmas\u0131 ne demek. Ve insan haklar\u0131, insan hukuku, demokrasi ve bunun gibi sadece s\u00f6ylemde var olan bir\u00e7ok kavram\u0131n yer edindi\u011fi bir \u00fclkede ya\u015fan\u0131yor b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar. Ve hukuk sessiz kal\u0131yor, adalet sessiz kal\u0131yor b\u00fct\u00fcn bu ya\u015fananlar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda. \u0130nsanl\u0131k, toplum sessiz kal\u0131yor katliam, k\u0131r\u0131m, tecav\u00fcz kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda. Burada soramadan edemiyor insan b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n t\u00fckenmesi, toplumun en zirvede ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 yozla\u015fma de\u011filde nedir. Sizler nas\u0131l tabir edersiniz bilmiyorum ama ben toplumsal \u00e7\u00fcr\u00fcmenin, yozla\u015fman\u0131n en zirvede ya\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131 bi\u00e7iminde yorumluyorum.<\/p>\n<p>Yozla\u015fma kavram\u0131n\u0131 g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz toplumsall\u0131\u011f\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan bir\u00e7ok boyutta de\u011ferlendirebiliriz. Cinsler aras\u0131 ili\u015fkilerden tutal\u0131m toplumsal de\u011ferlerin ayaklar alt\u0131na al\u0131nmas\u0131na insan ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131n de\u011fersizle\u015fmesine kadar. Yozla\u015fman\u0131n da sebepleri vard\u0131r her \u015feyden \u00f6nce \u00f6zel sava\u015f mekanizmas\u0131 olarak i\u015fleyen medya ve kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131 dil \u015fiddetin artmas\u0131na ve yozla\u015fman\u0131n derinle\u015fmesine b\u00fcy\u00fck hizmet etmektedir. Yine insan haklar\u0131n\u0131 savunmak, adaleti olu\u015fturup korumak i\u00e7in olu\u015fturulan yasalar\u0131n \u00f6zel sava\u015f sisteminin, devletinin hizmetinde i\u015f g\u00f6rmesindedir. Ve tabi ki devletin, iktidar\u0131n te\u015fvik etmesi, dayanak olu\u015fturmas\u0131 en temel nedenleri olu\u015fturmaktad\u0131r. K\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 geli\u015ftirilen taciz, tecav\u00fcz su\u00e7unu \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 bu su\u00e7lularla evlendirerek su\u00e7u normalle\u015ftirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak en az tecav\u00fcz etmek kadar b\u00fcy\u00fck su\u00e7tur, g\u00fcnaht\u0131r. Devletimizin y\u00fcksek adaleti bunu su\u00e7u i\u015fliyor bu g\u00fcnaha giriyor.<\/p>\n<p>K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015fta k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n evlendirilmesi, k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na, gen\u00e7 k\u0131zlara ve kad\u0131nlara cinsel taciz veya tecav\u00fcz giri\u015fimleri neden azalm\u0131yor da her g\u00fcn her hafta her ay her y\u0131l katlanarak \u00e7o\u011fal\u0131yor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc iktidar toplumun g\u00fcndeminin bu olmas\u0131n\u0131 istiyor. Devlet, siyaset su\u00e7u \u00f6zellikle de kad\u0131n katliam\u0131n\u0131, \u015fiddeti, tecav\u00fcz\u00fc me\u015frula\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yor siyasetini bunun \u00fczerinden olu\u015fturuyor. Bu \u00fclkenin akademisyeni Prof. Dr. bir adam \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p 12-17 ya\u015f aras\u0131 kad\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ocuk do\u011furmak i\u00e7in en uygun ya\u015f oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor. Bir baba kendi kan\u0131ndan, can\u0131ndan bir par\u00e7a olan k\u0131z\u0131na el uzat\u0131yor, k\u0131z\u0131na tecav\u00fcz ediyor, annesi olay\u0131 \u00e7ok \u00f6nceden bilmesine ra\u011fmen \u00e7aresiz bir \u015fey yapam\u0131yor uyarmak bak bir daha yapma demek d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda. Toplumun manevi anlamda \u00f6nc\u00fcleri olmas\u0131 gereken din \u00e2limleri din bilginleri ge\u00e7inenler her an kad\u0131n k\u0131r\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n fetvalar\u0131n\u0131 vermekten geri durmuyorlar. Her g\u00fcn kad\u0131n\u0131 daha fazla nas\u0131l eve kapat\u0131r\u0131z, daha fazla nas\u0131l erke\u011fin faydalanmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flar\u0131z, nas\u0131l daha fazla kullan\u0131ma pazarlar\u0131z \u00fczerinden kafa yormaktalar. Ve yak\u0131n zamanda ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015f farkl\u0131 bir\u00e7ok olaydan \u00f6rnekler verebiliriz daha ama gerek yok. Olaylar\u0131 de\u011ferlendirmekten ya da dillendirmekten ziyade ki buda gereklidir gereksiz olarak g\u00f6rm\u00fcyorum tabi ama ihtiyac\u0131m\u0131z olan \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm odakl\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek olmal\u0131 geliyor bana.<\/p>\n<p>Bir kad\u0131n olarak bulundu\u011fum yerden bu ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z d\u00fcnyay\u0131 anlamaya kavramaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorum tabi. Karma\u015f\u0131k duygular i\u00e7erisinde bir yandan b\u00fcy\u00fck bir \u00f6fke, kimi zaman utan\u00e7 i\u00e7erisinde izliyoruz, bak\u0131yoruz, kendimizce baz\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmler de geli\u015ftiriyoruz. Ama ila\u00e7 olmuyor, k\u00f6kl\u00fc \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm geli\u015ftirmiyor. Benim kanaatimce k\u00f6kl\u00fc \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc ancak kad\u0131n olarak \u00f6z savunma sistemini geli\u015ftirir ve bu anlamda kendimizi donat\u0131rsak, \u00f6rg\u00fctlersek geli\u015ftirebiliriz. Kad\u0131n savunma kom\u00fcnleri olmal\u0131d\u0131r mesela. Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n bu t\u00fcr olaylar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda eylem timleri olu\u015fturulmal\u0131d\u0131r. Mant\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u015fiddete kar\u015f\u0131 \u015fiddet de\u011fil tabi ama ilk etapta yap\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken olarak \u00f6n g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm kad\u0131nlar\u0131n bir savunma mekanizmas\u0131 olursa sistem ve sistem kafal\u0131 erkek bu abimiz, babam\u0131z, hocam\u0131z, profes\u00f6r\u00fcm\u00fcz, ayd\u0131n\u0131m\u0131z olsun kendilerine biraz durup d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme pay\u0131 b\u0131rakabilirler. Bu konuda kad\u0131nlar olarak biraz kafa yoral\u0131m bence. \u00d6z savunmay\u0131 ya\u015fam\u0131n her alan\u0131nda nas\u0131l geli\u015ftiririzi biraz tart\u0131\u015fal\u0131m. Sistemin \u00f6zel sava\u015f alan\u0131na d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrerek kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131 b\u00fct\u00fcn alanlar\u0131 bizler de kullanal\u0131m. Medyas\u0131ndan, siyasetine, adaletinden akl\u0131m\u0131za gelebilecek her alan\u0131 \u00f6z savunma kalkan\u0131 haline nas\u0131l getirebiliriz, sistemin \u00f6zel sava\u015fa d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc b\u00fct\u00fcn ya\u015famsal alanlar\u0131 kad\u0131nlar sisteme kar\u015f\u0131 ne kadar etkili kullanabiliriz \u00fczerinden tart\u0131\u015fal\u0131m biraz.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Solin Bahar<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>K\u00fcrdistan Stratejik Ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar Merkezi<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Kad\u0131n katliamlar\u0131 ve \u015fiddet h\u0131z\u0131ndan bir \u015fey kaybetmeden hatta her g\u00fcn biraz daha katlanarak devam ediyor. En son Nisan ay\u0131 bilan\u00e7osu 34 kad\u0131n\u0131n katledildi\u011fi ve 24 kad\u0131n\u0131n \u015fiddete maruz b\u0131rak\u0131larak katledilmek \u00fczere uygulamalara maruz kald\u0131\u011f\u0131na y\u00f6nelik payla\u015f\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Bir o kadar da May\u0131s ay\u0131 bilan\u00e7osu var tabi. \u015eimdi bu konuda \u00e7ok yaz\u0131yor, anlat\u0131yor, de\u011ferlendiriyor her [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":11418,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":{"subtitle":"","format":"standard","video":"","gallery":"","source_name":"","source_url":"","via_name":"","via_url":"","override_template":"0","override":[{"template":"1","single_blog_custom":"","parallax":"1","fullscreen":"0","layout":"right-sidebar","sidebar":"default-sidebar","second_sidebar":"default-sidebar","sticky_sidebar":"1","share_position":"top","share_float_style":"share-monocrhome","show_share_counter":"1","show_view_counter":"1","show_featured":"1","show_post_meta":"1","show_post_author":"1","show_post_author_image":"1","show_post_date":"1","post_date_format":"default","post_date_format_custom":"Y\/m\/d","show_post_category":"1","show_post_reading_time":"0","post_reading_time_wpm":"300","show_zoom_button":"0","zoom_button_out_step":"2","zoom_button_in_step":"3","show_post_tag":"1","show_prev_next_post":"1","show_popup_post":"1","number_popup_post":"1","show_author_box":"0","show_post_related":"0","show_inline_post_related":"0"}],"override_image_size":"0","image_override":[{"single_post_thumbnail_size":"crop-500","single_post_gallery_size":"crop-500"}],"trending_post":"0","trending_post_position":"meta","trending_post_label":"Trending","sponsored_post":"0","sponsored_post_label":"Sponsored by","sponsored_post_name":"","sponsored_post_url":"","sponsored_post_logo_enable":"0","sponsored_post_logo":"","sponsored_post_desc":""},"jnews_primary_category":{"id":""},"jnews_social_meta":{"fb_title":"","fb_description":"","fb_image":"","twitter_title":"","twitter_description":"","twitter_image":""},"jnews_override_counter":{"override_view_counter":"0","view_counter_number":"0","override_share_counter":"0","share_counter_number":"0","override_like_counter":"0","like_counter_number":"0","override_dislike_counter":"0","dislike_counter_number":"0"},"jnews_post_split":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[11],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11417","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kadin"],"acf":[],"post_mailing_queue_ids":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lekolin.org\/ku\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11417","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lekolin.org\/ku\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lekolin.org\/ku\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lekolin.org\/ku\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lekolin.org\/ku\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11417"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.lekolin.org\/ku\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11417\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11419,"href":"https:\/\/www.lekolin.org\/ku\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11417\/revisions\/11419"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lekolin.org\/ku\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/11418"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lekolin.org\/ku\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11417"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lekolin.org\/ku\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11417"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lekolin.org\/ku\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11417"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}