{"id":1615,"date":"2020-03-15T00:19:52","date_gmt":"2020-03-14T21:19:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lekolin.org\/bir-ogulun-ardindan\/"},"modified":"2020-03-15T00:19:52","modified_gmt":"2020-03-14T21:19:52","slug":"bir-ogulun-ardindan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lekolin.org\/ku\/bir-ogulun-ardindan\/","title":{"rendered":"B\u0130R O\u011eULUN ARDINDAN"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>28 Haziran 2015 Pazar Saat 01:49<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<div class=\"detail content_14\" id=\"text_detail\">\n<div class=\"newsImage\">\n<b>As\u0131l m\u00fccadeleyi y\u00fckselten analar\u0131n fedak\u00e2rl\u0131klar\u0131d\u0131r. G\u00f6zleri ya\u015flarla dolaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmelerine ra\u011fmen \u201ccan  diye kucaklad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6zg\u00fcr bir yar\u0131n i\u00e7in g\u00f6zlerden \u0131rak edebiliyorlar<\/b><\/p>\n<p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.lekolin.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/3923-1.jpg\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n<p>\t\t\t\t\t\tBir g\u00fcn rastgele bilgisayardaki m\u00fcziklerden bir se\u00e7im<br \/>\nyaparak bir \u015fark\u0131 se\u00e7tim. Daha ilk giri\u015findeki melodi t\u00fcylerimi \u00fcrpertmeye<br \/>\nyetmi\u015fti bile. Daha bir merak sard\u0131 beni o zaman. Hep m\u00fczi\u011fin duygulara hitap<br \/>\netti\u011fi ger\u00e7e\u011fini g\u00f6z ard\u0131 etmediysem de beynimde yank\u0131 bulmas\u0131na izin verdim.<br \/>\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bana bir\u00e7ok ger\u00e7ekli\u011fi hat\u0131rlatmakla kalmam\u0131\u015f onu iliklerime kadar<br \/>\nhissetmemi sa\u011flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. <\/p>\n<p class=\" \">Bir anan\u0131n en yal\u0131n duygularla anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 ger\u00e7eklik vard\u0131<br \/>\n\u015fark\u0131da. Bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun olmay\u0131\u015f\u0131 duygusu anada yarat\u0131lan duygu seli \u00e7ok sade bir<br \/>\na\u011f\u0131tla dile gelmi\u015fti. Biz K\u00fcrtler hep a\u011f\u0131tlarla b\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fck.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>Yabanc\u0131s\u0131 de\u011fildik bu duygular\u0131n. Ya\u015fayarak,<br \/>\ng\u00f6rerek duyumsam\u0131\u015ft\u0131k bir\u00e7ok defa. Ama bu bende yeni duyuyormu\u015fum gibi bir<br \/>\nduygu yaratt\u0131. Tekrar tekrar dinledim. Hi\u00e7 s\u0131k\u0131lmad\u0131m bu tekrarlardan. Tam<br \/>\ntersi bir anan\u0131n y\u00fcre\u011fini hissetmeyi hedefledim. Empati yaparak kendimi onun<br \/>\nyerine koymaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. <\/p>\n<p class=\" \">A\u011f\u0131tta ana, giden \u00e7ocu\u011funun ard\u0131ndan kendisini hep yar\u0131m<br \/>\ng\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc defalarca vurguluyor. Bunun bo\u015f olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n bilinciyle olmas\u0131 huzur<br \/>\nyaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor. Huzur dolu gelece\u011fin in\u015fas\u0131nda g\u00fc\u00e7 olu\u015fturuyor onda. Akan<br \/>\ng\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 ise \u201cya\u015fam kayna\u011f\u0131  olarak de\u011ferlendirmesi en anlaml\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r bence.<br \/>\nUmut dolu geleceklerin bedelsiz olmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6steren bir anan\u0131n a\u011f\u0131t\u0131 kadar<br \/>\nhi\u00e7bir \u015fey bu kadar g\u00fczel ifade edemezdi. <\/p>\n<p class=\" \">Halende beynimde yank\u0131lan\u0131yor bu anan\u0131n a\u011f\u0131t\u0131. Sonra<br \/>\nmilyonlarca ana g\u00f6zlerimin \u00f6n\u00fcnde canlan\u0131yor. Nice analar nice canlar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc<br \/>\nk\u0131rpmadan feda ettiler. Hep bir g\u00fcn bu analar\u0131n ellerinden \u00f6pece\u011fim g\u00fcn\u00fc<br \/>\nsab\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131kla bekliyorum. Analar sayesinde \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn ne demek oldu\u011funu anlad\u0131k<br \/>\nkan\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131maktay\u0131m. Kesinlikle bu b\u00f6yle. As\u0131l m\u00fccadeleyi y\u00fckselten analar\u0131n<br \/>\nfedak\u00e2rl\u0131klar\u0131d\u0131r. G\u00f6zleri ya\u015flarla dolaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmelerine ra\u011fmen \u201ccan  diye<br \/>\nkucaklad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6zg\u00fcr bir yar\u0131n i\u00e7in g\u00f6zlerden \u0131rak edebiliyorlar. Hi\u00e7 teredd\u00fct<br \/>\netmeden hem de.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>Sevgisizliklerinden<br \/>\nde\u011fil tam tersi a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 sevgilerinden bunu yap\u0131yorlar. Tutkulular onlar. Huzur<br \/>\ndolu yar\u0131nlara tutkulular. Ve bu yar\u0131nlar\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n a\u015fkla y\u00fcr\u00fctt\u00fc\u011f\u00fc kavgada<br \/>\ng\u00f6r\u00fcyorlar. <\/p>\n<p class=\" \">\u015eimdi b\u00fcy\u00fcy\u00fcnce \u00e7ocuklar, eski analarda da m\u00fcthi\u015f bir<br \/>\nde\u011fi\u015fim oluyor art\u0131k. Ana \u00e7ocu\u011funa hep kavga etmemesini \u00f6\u011f\u00fct\u00fcrken bu seferde<br \/>\nkendisi kavga etmesini \u00f6\u011fretiyor. Kavga etmeyen \u00e7ocuk azarlan\u0131yor i\u015fte. Ya\u015fam\u0131n<br \/>\nbir kavga oldu\u011funu en sade bir \u015fekilde g\u00f6steriyor. Hak istenilmez elde edilir<br \/>\nd\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesini \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na \u00f6\u011fretenler anneler oluyor art\u0131k.<\/p>\n<p class=\" \">H\u00e2lbuki eskiden analar \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 s\u0131rf kavgaya bula\u015fmas\u0131n<br \/>\ndiye her \u015feyi yaparlard\u0131. Ancak \u015fimdiki zaman \u00f6yle bir zamanki anneler ba\u015f\u0131<br \/>\n\u00e7ekiyor oldular. D\u00fcnya kavga etmesini bilmeyenleri ya\u015fatm\u0131yor nedense. Bu<br \/>\ny\u00fczden analar\u0131n bilinciyle, ya\u015fam tecr\u00fcbesiyle \u00f6\u011freniyoruz bu kavgalar\u0131.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>Art\u0131k analarda bedelsiz \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn<br \/>\nolamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131n fark\u0131nda oldu\u011fundan bedel \u00f6demek i\u00e7in haz\u0131r olduklar\u0131n\u0131<br \/>\ng\u00f6steriyorlar. \u00d6zelliklede kendi elleriyle \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck yolculu\u011funa yolcularken<br \/>\nbunu dimdik duru\u015flar\u0131nda g\u00f6steriyorlar. Zafere sevdal\u0131lar. \u00d6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011fe<br \/>\n\u00e2\u015f\u0131klar.<span>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\" \">Ya\u015fam\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6\u011fretmeni olan annelerden bir kez daha<br \/>\n\u00f6\u011freniyor \u00e7ocuklar. \u201cAnas\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011fu olmak  b\u00f6yle bir ger\u00e7ekliktir. Zaten hep<br \/>\nanalardan \u00f6\u011frendik ya\u015fam ger\u00e7ekli\u011fini. \u015eimdi de \u00f6yle. Kavga etmesini, hakk\u0131n\u0131<br \/>\nelde etmeyi ve kimli\u011fini kazanmay\u0131 analar \u00f6\u011fretti bizlere. Hem de hi\u00e7 durmasan,<br \/>\ntekrar ede ede\u2026 <\/p>\n<p class=\" \">Bir o\u011fulun ard\u0131ndan \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131r bu a\u011f\u0131tlar.<br \/>\nYenilmi\u015fli\u011fin, pi\u015fmanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n ac\u0131 ba\u011f\u0131rmalar\u0131 de\u011fildir. \u00d6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn bedelsiz<br \/>\nolmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131n ve olamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131n bilin\u00e7 \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131klar\u0131d\u0131r. Bu y\u00fczden a\u011f\u0131tlar<br \/>\ndestanla\u015f\u0131r. T\u00fcrk\u00fc e\u015fli\u011finde s\u00f6ylenir. T\u0131pk\u0131 \u015fark\u0131 tad\u0131nda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 herkese<br \/>\ng\u00f6stermek ister gibidir a\u011f\u0131tlar.<span>\u00a0 <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\" \">T\u00fcm ya\u015fam kavgam\u0131z\u0131 analar\u0131n yolunda y\u00fcr\u00fcmeyle kazanm\u0131\u015f\u0131z.<br \/>\nVe hep de b\u00f6yle olacakt\u0131r. Analara huzur dolu bir yar\u0131n yaratmak i\u00e7in kavgaya<br \/>\ndevam edece\u011fiz. Hi\u00e7bir zaman pes etmeyece\u011fiz.<\/p>\n<p class=\" \">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\" \">ASTAREG\u00dcL BOTAN<\/p>\n<p class=\" \">K\u00fcrdistan Stratejik Ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar Merkezi<\/p>\n<p class=\" \">www.lekolin.com &#8211; www.lekolin.org &#8211; www.lekolin.net \u2013<br \/>\nwww.lekolin.info &#8211; www.navendalekolin.com<\/p>\n<p>\t<!-- parveke begin --><\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"sharethis-inline-share-buttons\"><\/div>\n<p><!-- parveke END -->\n<\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><b>As\u0131l m\u00fccadeleyi y\u00fckselten analar\u0131n fedak\u00e2rl\u0131klar\u0131d\u0131r. G\u00f6zleri ya\u015flarla dolaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmelerine ra\u011fmen \u201ccan  diye kucaklad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6zg\u00fcr bir yar\u0131n i\u00e7in g\u00f6zlerden \u0131rak edebiliyorlar<\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1616,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":[],"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_social_meta":[],"jnews_override_counter":[],"jnews_post_split":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[32,151,140,31,36,33,30,150,35,34],"class_list":["post-1615","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-makaleler","tag-arastirma","tag-ardindan","tag-bir","tag-kurdi","tag-kurdish","tag-kurdistan","tag-lekolin","tag-ogulun","tag-turkish","tag-turkiye"],"acf":[],"post_mailing_queue_ids":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lekolin.org\/ku\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1615","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lekolin.org\/ku\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lekolin.org\/ku\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lekolin.org\/ku\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lekolin.org\/ku\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1615"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.lekolin.org\/ku\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1615\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lekolin.org\/ku\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1616"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lekolin.org\/ku\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1615"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lekolin.org\/ku\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1615"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lekolin.org\/ku\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1615"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}