{"id":2276,"date":"2020-03-15T00:30:50","date_gmt":"2020-03-14T21:30:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lekolin.org\/kadin-hakikatini-nerede-kaybetti-ve-nasil-bulacak\/"},"modified":"2020-03-15T00:30:50","modified_gmt":"2020-03-14T21:30:50","slug":"kadin-hakikatini-nerede-kaybetti-ve-nasil-bulacak","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lekolin.org\/ku\/kadin-hakikatini-nerede-kaybetti-ve-nasil-bulacak\/","title":{"rendered":"Kad\u0131n Hakikatini Nerede Kaybetti ve Nas\u0131l Bulacak\u2026.."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>09 Haziran 2010 \u00c7ar\u015famba Saat 06:42<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<div class=\"detail content_14\" id=\"text_detail\">\n<div class=\"newsImage\">\n<b>Ya\u015fam\u0131n anlam\u0131na kimin sayesinde ula\u015ft\u0131k? Bunun hakk\u0131n\u0131 ne kadar verebiliyoruz diye kendime son g\u00fcnlerde sordu\u011fum sorudur<\/b><\/p>\n<p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.lekolin.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/532-1.jpg\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n<p>  0<\/p>\n<p>  21<\/p>\n<p>  TR<\/p>\n<p><!--\n \/* Font Definitions *\/\n @font-face\n\t  \"Cambria Math\" \n\tpanose-1:2 4 5 3 5 4 6 3 2 4 \n\tmso-font-charset:162 \n\tmso-generic- roman \n\tmso-font-pitch:variable \n\tmso-font-signature:-1610611985 1107304683 0 0 159 0  \n@font-face\n\t    \n\tpanose-1:2 15 5 2 2 2 4 3 2 4 \n\tmso-font-charset:162 \n\tmso-generic- swiss \n\tmso-font-pitch:variable \n\tmso-font-signature:-1610611985 1073750139 0 0 159 0  \n  \n p.Mso , li.Mso , div.Mso \n\t mso-style-unhide:no \n\t  \n\t :\"\" \n\tmargin-top:0cm \n\tmargin-right:0cm \n\tmargin-bottom:10.0pt \n\tmargin-left:0cm \n\t \n\t \n\t \n\t \" \",\" \" \n\t   \n\t :\" \" \n\t \n.MsoChpDefault\n\t mso-style-type:export-only \n\tmso-default-props:yes \n\t  \n\tmso-ansi-  \n\tmso-bidi-  \n\t \n\t   \n\t  \n@page Section1\n\t size:595.3pt 841.9pt \n\tmargin:70.85pt 70.85pt 70.85pt 70.85pt \n\tmso-header-margin:35.4pt \n\tmso-footer-margin:35.4pt \n\tmso-paper-source:0  \ndiv.Section1\n\t page:Section1  \n--><\/p>\n<p>\t  :&#8221; &#8221; <\/p>\n<p>\t :&#8221;&#8221; <\/p>\n<p>\t &#8221; &#8220;,&#8221; &#8221; <\/p>\n<p>\t &#8221; &#8221; <\/p>\n<p>Ya\u015fam\u0131n anlam\u0131na kimin sayesinde ula\u015ft\u0131k? Bunun hakk\u0131n\u0131 ne<br \/>\nkadar verebiliyoruz diye kendime son g\u00fcnlerde sordu\u011fum sorudur? <\/p>\n<p class=\" \">B\u00fcy\u00fck bilgeler ka\u00e7 y\u00fczy\u0131lda bir insanl\u0131\u011fa de\u011ferli bir<br \/>\narma\u011fan olarak gelirler, ara\u015ft\u0131rmas\u0131n\u0131 yapmad\u0131m ama \u015funda ikna\u0131y\u0131m, \u00f6yle kolay<br \/>\nkolay\u0131 gelmezler ve bir o kadar da kolay anla\u015f\u0131lmazlar. Anla\u015f\u0131lmalar\u0131 i\u00e7in ilah<br \/>\nb\u00fcy\u00fck bedeller \u00f6denmek zorunda m\u0131? G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz itibariyle bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z<br \/>\ny\u00fczy\u0131l ger\u00e7ekli\u011fini de eklersek bunlar\u0131n b\u00f6yle ya\u015fanmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flayan temel g\u00fc\u00e7<br \/>\nataerkil zihniyetten ba\u015fkas\u0131 de\u011fil. B\u00f6yle yaparak kendisini daha fazla<br \/>\nanla\u015f\u0131lmaz k\u0131lmakta ve daha fazla insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 kemirerek, toplumu kendi kominal<br \/>\n\u00f6z\u00fcnden uzakla\u015ft\u0131rmay\u0131 ba\u015farmaktad\u0131r. Kendi \u00f6z\u00fcnden uzakla\u015fan insanl\u0131k, asl\u0131nda<br \/>\ninsan olmaktan uzakla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n fark\u0131nda bile olmuyor. Bu fark\u0131nda olmamak ise<br \/>\nataerkil sistemin g\u00fc\u00e7lenip canavara d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fmesine kolayl\u0131k sa\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, bazen \u00e7ok<br \/>\nge\u00e7 \u00f6\u011frenmekteyiz. Oysa y\u00fczy\u0131llard\u0131r halklar ve topluluklar ne \u00e7ok bedeller<br \/>\n\u00f6deyerek bug\u00fcne geldiler. Ya\u015famlar\u0131nda b\u00fcy\u00fck bilgelerin \u00f6\u011fretileri ile ataerkil<br \/>\nyalana dayanan \u00f6\u011fretiler \u00e7at\u0131\u015farak, bu \u00f6yle bir \u00e7at\u0131\u015fma ki, k\u0131ran k\u0131rana olan,<br \/>\nbiri onurlu bir ya\u015fam\u0131 ve anaya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fc dayat\u0131rken, di\u011feri onursuz ve anas\u0131z bir<br \/>\nya\u015fam\u0131 dayatmakta. Hangisinin galip geldi\u011fini y\u00fcreklerimize ve bilincimize<br \/>\ndefalarca soral\u0131m. Bu soruyu onunla ba\u011flant\u0131l\u0131 sorgulamay\u0131 kendimizden<br \/>\nba\u015flatmaya nedersiniz\u2026 \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hakikat orada gizlidir?<\/p>\n<p class=\" \">Bireyin hakikati onun toplumudur. Onun ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131, tarihi<br \/>\nyazan eller kendilerine g\u00f6re ve ataerkil zihniyetinden damlayan zehir misalli,<br \/>\nbizi hakikatlerimizden koparmad\u0131lar m\u0131?<span>\u00a0\u00a0<br \/>\n<\/span>Anam\u0131zdan, do\u011fam\u0131zdan, yurdumuzdan, etik de\u011ferlerimizden ve bilge anan\u0131n<br \/>\nk\u00fclt\u00fcnden kopar\u0131lmad\u0131k m\u0131? Hakikatimizin ne oldu\u011funu unutmu\u015ftuk, \u00f6yle ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131z<br \/>\nko\u015fturmaya tabi olmu\u015ftu, bizler ko\u015ftuk\u00e7a ko\u015fuyorduk. Ko\u015fturma i\u00e7inde hakikaten<br \/>\nuzakla\u015f\u0131yorduk. Birey ipinden kopmu\u015f canavar olmu\u015ftu, kendini t\u00fcketen kendi<br \/>\ntoplumunun kurdu olan insana d\u00f6nm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc art\u0131k.<\/p>\n<p class=\" \">Peki, ne zaman insan insan\u0131n kurdu olmay\u0131 b\u0131rakacak,<br \/>\nanas\u0131n\u0131n ac\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6recek ve sesiz \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 duyumsay\u0131p ac\u0131lar\u0131na bitirme<br \/>\nsava\u015f\u0131 verecek? Toplumsal ahlak\u0131n\u0131 kaybetmeyen onunla ataerkil sistemin t\u00fcm<br \/>\nengellemelerine ra\u011fmen ya\u015famaya devam edenler daha kolay ba\u015faracaklard\u0131r.<br \/>\nYa\u015fam\u0131n bilgesini, ya\u015fama ya\u015fam katan\u0131 anlamaya da daha yak\u0131n duranlar<br \/>\nolduklar\u0131n\u0131 anlasalar, bu co\u011frafyan\u0131n insan\u0131 olduklar\u0131 i\u00e7in kendileriyle gurur<br \/>\nduyar, oryantal k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 yere yakla\u015ft\u0131rmazlard\u0131. O yakla\u015ft\u0131k\u00e7a kendi<br \/>\nhakikatlerinden ne kadar uzakla\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n da fark\u0131na varm\u0131\u015f olacaklard\u0131.<\/p>\n<p class=\" \">Konuya bir \u00f6rnekle somutluk getirelim. B\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00fcney<br \/>\nk\u00fcrdistan\u0131nda toplumsal a\u00e7\u0131dan ya\u015fan\u0131lanlar bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z da toplumsal hakikat<br \/>\nnerede? Bu toplumu toplum yapan temel ya\u015famsal ilkelere ne oldu, kim a\u015f\u0131nd\u0131rd\u0131,<br \/>\nbir zamanlar bu topraklarda kad\u0131n en de\u011ferli varl\u0131k iken, bug\u00fcn i\u00e7ine girdi\u011fi<br \/>\n\u00e7\u0131kmaz ve kendisine kurtulu\u015f olarak tercih etti\u011fi intihar\u0131n \u00e7e\u015fitli<br \/>\nbi\u00e7imlerinin tarz\u0131na nas\u0131l gelindi? Bunun toplumsal a\u00e7\u0131dan yarat\u0131\u011f\u0131 sorunlar\u0131<br \/>\niyi tahlil etmek gerekmekte. Kad\u0131n\u0131n ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 sorunun derinli\u011fini ve hakikatini<br \/>\nkaybedi\u015f tarihini bir \u00e7ok bilge \u00e7\u00f6zmeye yada tahlil etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Ancak hi\u00e7<br \/>\nbirisi hakikat aray\u0131\u015f\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 bilge \u00f6nder kadar tarihsel, toplumsal, felsefik ve<br \/>\nsosyolojik a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 yapmad\u0131. Kad\u0131n\u0131n kendi tarihini bilge anan\u0131n k\u00fclt\u00fcyle<br \/>\nyeniden bulu\u015ftururken, kad\u0131n\u0131n yaz\u0131lmayan tarihini yazacak birileri varsa da<br \/>\nonun kad\u0131ndan ba\u015fkas\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, yeni yaz\u0131lacak tarihe ataerkil zihniyet ve<br \/>\nonun miras\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 olan erkek akl\u0131n\u0131n de\u011fmemesi gerekti\u011fine de vurgu yapm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<br \/>\n\u015eimdi intihara s\u00fcr\u00fcklenen ve ona ba\u015fka se\u00e7enek b\u0131rakmayan erkek akl\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131<br \/>\nkad\u0131n ne yapmal\u0131, kendisini \u00f6l\u00fcm tuza\u011f\u0131ndan nas\u0131l hangi y\u00f6ntemle kurtarabilir?<br \/>\nBunun cevab\u0131n\u0131 gelecek yaz\u0131da tart\u0131\u015fmaya b\u0131rak\u0131yorum ama o zamana kadar sorular<br \/>\n\u00f6zerine d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeyi ihmal etmeyin evlerinizde sizler, kendi \u00f6zg\u00fcr mek\u00e2n\u0131mda ben.<br \/>\nBizler kad\u0131nlar\u0131n ac\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 duyumsarken kad\u0131nlarda onlar\u0131 duyumsad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131<br \/>\nduyumsamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fs\u0131nlar? Bak\u0131n kad\u0131n y\u00fcre\u011fi nas\u0131l bulu\u015fuyor ve zorluklara kar\u015f\u0131<br \/>\nm\u00fccadele ediyor\u2026.yeter ki y\u00fcre\u011fimiz bize ait olsun ba\u015faramayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z,<br \/>\ny\u0131kamayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z hi\u00e7bir engel olmayacakt\u0131r\u2026<\/p>\n<p class=\" \">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\" \">\u015eilan Deniz<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\" class=\" \">K\u00fcrdistan Stratejik Ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar<br \/>\nMerkezi<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\" class=\" \">www.navendalekolin.com &#8211;<br \/>\nwww.lekolin.org &#8211; www.lekolin.net &#8211; www.lekolin.info<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\" class=\" \">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\" \">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\t<!-- parveke begin --><\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"sharethis-inline-share-buttons\"><\/div>\n<p><!-- parveke END -->\n<\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><b>Ya\u015fam\u0131n anlam\u0131na kimin sayesinde ula\u015ft\u0131k? 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