{"id":9574,"date":"2020-03-15T02:45:55","date_gmt":"2020-03-14T23:45:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lekolin.org\/kadini-kadina-kirdirma-politikasi-olarak-kumalik\/"},"modified":"2020-05-05T13:23:47","modified_gmt":"2020-05-05T11:23:47","slug":"kadini-kadina-kirdirma-politikasi-olarak-kumalik","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lekolin.org\/ku\/kadini-kadina-kirdirma-politikasi-olarak-kumalik\/","title":{"rendered":"Kad\u0131n\u0131 Kad\u0131na K\u0131rd\u0131rma Politikas\u0131 Olarak Kumal\u0131k"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>05 A\u011fustos 2018 Pazar Saat 17:54<\/p>\n<div id=\"text_detail\" class=\"detail content_14\">\n<div class=\"newsImage\"><b>Tarihten g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcze kadar cinsler aras\u0131nda s\u00fcrekli bir sava\u015f ve \u00e7at\u0131\u015fma durumu ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.lekolin.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/5813-1.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt line-height: 115%;\">Tarihten g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcze kadar cinsler aras\u0131nda s\u00fcrekli bir sava\u015f ve<br \/>\n\u00e7at\u0131\u015fma durumu ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Eril zihniyetin iktidar olma m\u00fccadelesi tarihin her<br \/>\nd\u00f6neminde tarih sahnesine \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Neolitik d\u00f6neminde ya\u015fam\u0131n kad\u0131n etraf\u0131nda<br \/>\n\u015fekilleniyordu ve ya\u015fam\u0131n yarat\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 kad\u0131nd\u0131. O zaman kad\u0131n tanr\u0131\u00e7ayd\u0131. Do\u011fayla<br \/>\ni\u00e7 i\u00e7e bir ya\u015fam vard\u0131.\u00a0 Do\u011fa kad\u0131n\u0131<br \/>\nkad\u0131nda do\u011fay\u0131 tamaml\u0131yordu. Do\u011fan\u0131n verimlili\u011fiyle kad\u0131n\u0131n verimlili\u011fi<br \/>\nkar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 olarak devam ediyordu. Kad\u0131n kendi \u00fcreticili\u011fini devam etmek i\u00e7in<br \/>\n\u00e7iftle\u015fece\u011fi erke\u011fi kendi se\u00e7iyordu.\u00a0 Ve<br \/>\ndo\u011furdu\u011fu \u00e7ocuk toplumun \u00e7ocu\u011fuydu. Toplum do\u011fan \u00e7ocu\u011fa bak\u0131yor ve<br \/>\nb\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcyordu.\u00a0 Ancak daha sonraki<br \/>\nd\u00f6nemlere bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z zaman Erkek kendi spermleri olmadan Kad\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ocuk<br \/>\ndo\u011furamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131n fark\u0131na vard\u0131\u011f\u0131nda Erkek kad\u0131n rahmi \u00fczerinde iktidar kurmaya<br \/>\nba\u015flamas\u0131yla birlikte Kad\u0131n-Erkek aras\u0131nda \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmaya ba\u015flad\u0131.<br \/>\nS\u00fcmer d\u00f6nemine bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z zaman ise kad\u0131n M\u00fcsakaddin odalar\u0131nda haz\u0131rlanarak Erke\u011fe<br \/>\nsunulmaya ba\u015flad\u0131. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt line-height: 115%;\">Asl\u0131nda M\u00fcsakaddinler bu g\u00fcnk\u00fc kad\u0131n\u0131n pazarland\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00f6zel<br \/>\nevlerdir. Kad\u0131n\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fclmesiyle birlikte kad\u0131n\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00fc\u00e7leri elinde yava\u015f<br \/>\nyava\u015f al\u0131nmaya ba\u015fland\u0131.\u00a0 Kapitalist<br \/>\nsistemle birlikte kad\u0131n bir meta olarak g\u00f6r\u00fclmeye ba\u015fland\u0131. Ve kad\u0131n\u0131 kad\u0131na<br \/>\nk\u0131rd\u0131rma politikas\u0131 sistem taraf\u0131ndan hayata ge\u00e7irilmeye ba\u015fland\u0131. Bu sistem<br \/>\nilk ba\u015fta din yoluyla yap\u0131lmaya ba\u015fland\u0131. \u0130slamiyet dinine bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda her<br \/>\nerke\u011fe d\u00f6rt kad\u0131n helaldir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesi kad\u0131n \u00fczerinde y\u00fcr\u00fct\u00fclen ve kad\u0131n\u0131 kad\u0131na<br \/>\nk\u0131rd\u0131rma politikas\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zler \u00f6n\u00fcne sermektedir. Bunlar\u0131 g\u00f6z \u00f6n\u00fcne ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda<br \/>\nKumal\u0131k sisteminin nas\u0131l geli\u015fti\u011fini ve g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcze nas\u0131l geldi\u011fini g\u00f6rebiliriz. \u00d6ncelikle<br \/>\nkumal\u0131k yani \u00e7ok kad\u0131nl\u0131 evliliklerin, d\u00fcnya \u00fczerinde \u00f6teden beri var olan<br \/>\n\u00e7oke\u015flilik y\u00f6ntemlerinden yaln\u0131zca biri oldu\u011fuyla ba\u015flayal\u0131m. \u00c7ok kad\u0131nl\u0131<br \/>\nevlilikler genelde kumal\u0131k olarak an\u0131lsa da, co\u011frafi b\u00f6lgeye g\u00f6re ortakl\u0131k,<br \/>\ni\u00e7li-d\u0131\u015fl\u0131l\u0131k adlar\u0131n\u0131 da alan, adland\u0131rma \u00e7e\u015fitlili\u011finin bilakis bu prati\u011fin<br \/>\npek \u00e7ok yerde uygulan\u0131\u015f\u0131na delil oldu\u011fu bir durum. Dahas\u0131, \u00e7oke\u015flilik sadece<br \/>\n\u00e7ok kad\u0131nl\u0131 evliliklerle de\u011fil, \u00e7okerkekli evlilikler olarak ta ge\u00e7mi\u015fte de g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde<br \/>\nfarkl\u0131 toplumlarda uygulanm\u0131\u015f. Ancak yayg\u0131n \u00e7oke\u015flilik t\u00fcr\u00fc her zaman \u00c7okkad\u0131nl\u0131l\u0131k<br \/>\nolmu\u015f. \u00c7okkad\u0131nl\u0131l\u0131k ise ge\u00e7mi\u015fte ve g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde, sadece M\u00fcsl\u00fcman halklar ya da<br \/>\n\u0130slam hukukuyla y\u00f6netilen toplumlarda de\u011fil, pek \u00e7ok dinde, k\u00fclt\u00fcrde ve etnik<br \/>\ngrup aras\u0131nda uygulanm\u0131\u015f veya uygulanmakta. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt line-height: 115%;\">Antik Yunan, \u00c7in, Hint, Babil, Asur, M\u0131s\u0131r ve sahra alt\u0131 ve<br \/>\nkuzey Afrika\u2019daki toplumlarda g\u00f6r\u00fclen \u00c7okkad\u0131nl\u0131l\u0131k, sadece T\u00fcrkiye\u2019ye,<br \/>\nT\u00fcrkiye\u2019de ise g\u00fcney do\u011fuya, Arap ve K\u00fcrtlere, salt M\u00fcsl\u00fcman-Arap co\u011frafyas\u0131na<br \/>\nait bir evlilik t\u00fcr\u00fc de\u011fil. Hristiyanl\u0131kta Mormonlar, antik d\u00f6nem Musevileriyle<br \/>\ng\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz k\u00f6ktendinci Musevi gruplar\u0131 aras\u0131nda \u00e7okkad\u0131nl\u0131 evlilikler vard\u0131r. \u0130slam<br \/>\n\u00f6ncesi Arap toplumunda hem \u00e7okerkekli, hem de \u00e7ok kad\u0131nl\u0131 evlilikler yap\u0131lm\u0131\u015f,<br \/>\nancak \u0130slam \u00e7oke\u015flili\u011fi d\u00f6rt kad\u0131nla s\u0131n\u0131rlam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Nadir de olsa, g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcze<br \/>\nula\u015fan \u00e7okerkekli evlilikler de var. Tibet, Nepal ve Hindistan\u2019\u0131n baz\u0131 b\u00f6l\u00fcmlerinde,<br \/>\n\u0130nuit (Eskimo) ve Venezuela-Bari toplumunda \u00e7okerkekli evlilikler halen mevcut.<br \/>\nAncak ulus-devlet odakl\u0131 modernle\u015fme, modern medeni kanunlarla e\u015f say\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 teke<br \/>\nindirmi\u015ftir.\u00a0\u00c7oke\u015flili\u011fin \u00fclkemizdeki varl\u0131k sebeplerinden \u00f6nce, bu<br \/>\nevliliklerin do\u011fas\u0131ndan bahsetmekte fayda var. Yayg\u0131nl\u0131kla kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z<br \/>\n\u00e7oke\u015flilik ifadesinden kas\u0131t, \u00e7okkad\u0131nl\u0131 evliliklerdir ve bu bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan<br \/>\n\u00e7okerkeklilik hi\u00e7 bir toplumda uygulanmam\u0131\u015f bir sapk\u0131nl\u0131k olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr. \u00c7okerkekli<br \/>\nveya \u00e7okkad\u0131nl\u0131 olsun \u00e7oke\u015flilik her h\u00e2l\u00fck\u00e2rda ataerkil bir pratiktir,<br \/>\nerkeklerin maddi-fiziksel iktidarlar\u0131yla ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131, do\u011frudan erkek cinselli\u011fi<br \/>\nile ilgili anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n \u015fekillendirdi\u011fi evlilik t\u00fcrleridir. \u00c7oke\u015fli bir kad\u0131n,<br \/>\nd\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclenin aksine mutlak \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck sahibi, kad\u0131n-erkek rollerini tersine<br \/>\n\u00e7evirmi\u015f veya bu rolleri belirleyen bir birey de\u011fildir. \u00c7okerkekli evlilikler<br \/>\nkuran kad\u0131nlar, erkeklerin koydu\u011fu yasalara, onlar\u0131n yaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131 siyasi iktidar<br \/>\nve ekonomik d\u00fczene tabidir. Kad\u0131n n\u00fcfusundaki azl\u0131k, yoksulluk, tar\u0131m arazileri<br \/>\nve maddi kaynaklar\u0131n k\u0131s\u0131tl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 nedeniyle, birbiriyle sava\u015f ve \u00e7at\u0131\u015fma<br \/>\nhalindeki gruplar\u0131 bar\u0131\u015f i\u00e7inde tutmak ve erkek e\u015flerden birinin yoklu\u011funda<br \/>\nkad\u0131n ve aileyi \u201cba\u015ftan kabul edilmi\u015f ikinci e\u015fin korumak i\u00e7in, \u00e7o\u011funlukla<br \/>\nerkek karde\u015f olan ikinci e\u015fe devrine ve geli\u015fi g\u00fczel cinsel ili\u015fkilerle<br \/>\nkad\u0131nlar \u00fczerindeki cinsel tehdidi engellemeye dayan\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt line-height: 115%;\">\u0130slam\u2019da \u201c\u00c7ok e\u015flilik Ad\u0131 Alt\u0131nda Cinsel Doyumsuzluk<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt line-height: 115%;\">\u0130slam, Ortado\u011fu ve Arap toplumundaki \u00e7oke\u015flilik<br \/>\nuygulamalar\u0131n\u0131 \u00c7okkad\u0131nl\u0131l\u0131k ve d\u00f6rt kad\u0131n e\u015f olarak s\u0131n\u0131rlam\u0131\u015f, \u00c7okerkeklili\u011fi<br \/>\nyasaklam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u0130slam\u2019daki \u00c7okkad\u0131nl\u0131l\u0131k kayna\u011f\u0131n\u0131 Kuran\u2019\u0131 Kerim\u2019den al\u0131r, ancak<br \/>\n\u00e7okkad\u0131nl\u0131 bir erke\u011fin her h\u00e2l\u00fck\u00e2rda e\u015fleri aras\u0131nda adaleti yerine<br \/>\ngetiremeyece\u011fi ihtimali \u00fczerinde de duruldu\u011fundan, genel yakla\u015f\u0131m<br \/>\n\u00e7okkad\u0131nl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n bir emir de\u011fil, \u015fartlar\u0131n \u015fekillendirdi\u011fi, izin verilen bir<br \/>\nuygulama oldu\u011fu y\u00f6n\u00fcndedir. \u0130slam devletinin ilk d\u00f6nemlerindeki sava\u015flar\u0131n<br \/>\nerkek himayesinden yoksun, \u00e7ok miktarda yeti\u015fkin ve ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131 kad\u0131nla, kad\u0131n k\u00f6le<br \/>\ngruplar\u0131 yaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131 varsay\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 olu\u015fturur. Burada \u0130slam ve k\u00f6lelikle ilgili bir<br \/>\nparantez a\u00e7mak gerekir \u0130slam k\u00f6leli\u011fe izin verdi\u011finden ve bir erke\u011fin k\u00f6le<br \/>\nolarak h\u00e2kimiyeti alt\u0131ndaki kad\u0131nlar\u0131n cinsellikleri \u00fczerinde de hak talep<br \/>\nedebilece\u011fi, bu birlikteliklerden do\u011fan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 miras\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 olarak tan\u0131y\u0131p<br \/>\ntan\u0131mama hakk\u0131n\u0131 erke\u011fe vermi\u015ftir. \u0130slam dinindeki hukuki yakla\u015f\u0131mlar ve<br \/>\nM\u00fcsl\u00fcman toplumlar\u0131n \u00f6znel uygulamalar\u0131 e\u015f say\u0131s\u0131 konusunda farkl\u0131la\u015fsa da,<br \/>\n\u0130slam \u00e7okkad\u0131nl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131, iki e\u015flilik (bigami) bi\u00e7iminde ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmi\u015ftir. M\u00fcsl\u00fcman<br \/>\ntoplumlar\u0131n \u00e7oke\u015fli erkekleri bunu a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131kl\u0131 olarak iki kad\u0131nla evlenerek<br \/>\nyapm\u0131\u015f, \u00e7ok az\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7 veya daha fazla kad\u0131nla evlenmi\u015ftir. \u0130ki e\u015flilik Osmanl\u0131<br \/>\ntoplumundaki \u00e7okkad\u0131nl\u0131 evliliklerle, yasaklara ra\u011fmen ger\u00e7ekle\u015fen \u00e7okkad\u0131nl\u0131<br \/>\nevliliklerin yayg\u0131n \u015feklidir.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt line-height: 115%;\">\u00c7ok kad\u0131nl\u0131 Evliliklerin Sebebi \u0130ktidar Olma Anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131d\u0131r <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt line-height: 115%;\">Medeni hukuk ve ceza d\u00fczenlemelerine ra\u011fmen ekonomik, siyasi<br \/>\nve dinsel nedenler ba\u015fta olmak \u00fczere, n\u00fcfus art\u0131\u015f\u0131 ve erkek \u00e7ocuk sahibi olmak<br \/>\nkonusundaki g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc arzular, tar\u0131msal \u00fcretiminin emek yo\u011fun \u015fekilde seyretti\u011fi<br \/>\nd\u00fczlemlerde sosyal g\u00fcvence yoklu\u011funu ailedeki \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan say\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 art\u0131rarak \u00e7\u00f6zme<br \/>\ninanc\u0131, toplumsal n\u00fcfus ve iktidar\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcrme kayg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n, buna ek olarak<br \/>\nsiyasi ve cinsel iktidar arzular\u0131 \u00e7okkad\u0131nl\u0131 evliliklerin genel sebepleridir.<br \/>\nT\u00fcrkiye\u2019deki \u00e7okkad\u0131nl\u0131 evlilik oranlar\u0131 y\u00fczde 3-4 oran\u0131nda seyretmekte, \u00c7ok<br \/>\nkad\u0131nl\u0131 evliliklerin as\u0131l nedeni \u00e7ocuksuzluk de\u011fil, ataerkil bir arzu olan<br \/>\nerkek \u00e7ocuk aray\u0131\u015f\u0131d\u0131r. En yayg\u0131n neden ise aile karar\u0131yla yap\u0131lan g\u00f6r\u00fcc\u00fc usul\u00fc<br \/>\nevliliklerdir. E\u015f se\u00e7iminde T\u00fcrkiye\u2019nin pek \u00e7ok b\u00f6lgesinde yayg\u0131n olan yak\u0131nlar<br \/>\nve akrabalarla g\u00f6r\u00fcc\u00fc usul\u00fcyle ayarlanm\u0131\u015f evlilikler, bo\u015fanman\u0131n<br \/>\ntoplumsal-k\u00fclt\u00fcrel olarak \u201cimk\u00e2ns\u0131zla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 namus ve utanca dayal\u0131<br \/>\ntoplumsal d\u00fczende, erkekleri \u201cg\u00f6nl\u00fcne g\u00f6re ikinci e\u015f aray\u0131\u015f\u0131na<br \/>\ncesaretlendirmektedir. \u00dcst sosyo ekonomik gelir veya stat\u00fc grubundan erkekler<br \/>\nise, \u00f6rne\u011fin a\u011falar, \u015e\u0131hlar, \u015feyhler, Seydalar ve dedeler, \u00e7ok kad\u0131nla<br \/>\nevlenerek g\u00fc\u00e7 ve iktidarlar\u0131n\u0131 peki\u015ftirmi\u015f, ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 toplumsal \u00e7evredeki<br \/>\nsiyasi ve ekonomik gerilimleri \u201cyeni akrabal\u0131klar yaratarak \u201c\u00e7\u00f6zerler .\u00a0 \u201cNamus<br \/>\nve \u201cutanca dayal\u0131 d\u00fczenin belirledi\u011fi, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u00fclke ve b\u00f6lgeye \u00f6zg\u00fc<br \/>\n\u00e7e\u015fitli evlilik t\u00fcrleri de \u00e7okkad\u0131nl\u0131 evliliklerin sebeplerdendir. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt line-height: 115%;\">Kad\u0131n Ekonomik \u00c7\u0131kar<br \/>\n\u0130\u00e7in Kuma Veriliyor<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt line-height: 115%;\">Gen\u00e7 bir kad\u0131n\u0131n kendini isteyen kim olursa olsun, ikinci<br \/>\nveya \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc e\u015f olarak, dedikodulara sebep vermemek i\u00e7in evlendi\u011fi durumlar s\u00f6z<br \/>\nkonusudur, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc gelen k\u0131smeti \u00e7evirmenin evlenememeye yol a\u00e7aca\u011f\u0131na inan\u0131l\u0131r. Ka\u00e7arak<br \/>\nveya ka\u00e7\u0131rarak evlenmelerden bir b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc de \u00e7okkad\u0131nl\u0131 evliliklere yol a\u00e7ar.<br \/>\nLevirat yani \u00f6len e\u015fin erkek karde\u015fi ile evlenme, bak\u0131m ve sosyo-ekonomik<br \/>\ndestek ihtiyac\u0131ndaki kad\u0131n ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 aile i\u00e7inde tutmak ve yabanc\u0131larla<br \/>\nevlenmeyi engelledi\u011finden kumal\u0131\u011fa, berdel olarak adland\u0131r\u0131lan gen\u00e7 kad\u0131n<br \/>\nde\u011fi\u015f-toku\u015fuysa, evlenme \u00e7a\u011f\u0131nda ancak ekonomik kaynaklardan yoksun erkeklerin<br \/>\nk\u0131z karde\u015flerini kuma olarak evlendirerek evlenmelerini sa\u011flar.\u00a0Kan<br \/>\ndavalar\u0131n\u0131n kumal\u0131k yoluyla \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmlenmesi de yayg\u0131nd\u0131r bek\u00e2r gen\u00e7 kad\u0131nlar\u0131n,<br \/>\nkar\u015f\u0131 aileye gerekirse kuma olarak verilmesiyle \u201ckan bedeli kar\u015f\u0131lan\u0131r.<br \/>\nN\u00fcfusun azalma e\u011filiminde seyretti\u011fi \u00e7e\u015fitli etnik-dinsel \u00e7evrelerde yok olma<br \/>\nve di\u011fer gruplarla kar\u0131\u015fma kayg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 gidermek i\u00e7in kad\u0131nlar\u0131n ikinci veya<br \/>\n\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc e\u015f olarak n\u00fcfus art\u0131\u015f\u0131 i\u00e7in evlendirilmesi de \u00e7okkad\u0131nl\u0131 evliliklere<br \/>\nneden olur. \u00c7ocukluk \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ndaki gen\u00e7 kad\u0131nlar\u0131n evlendirilmelerinin de, \u00c7okkad\u0131nl\u0131l\u0131k<br \/>\nprati\u011fini peki\u015ftirdi\u011fi s\u00f6ylenebilir \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc resmi olarak evlenme ya\u015f\u0131na eri\u015fmemi\u015f<br \/>\nk\u0131zlar\u0131 kuma olarak kay\u0131t d\u0131\u015f\u0131 evlendirmek evlilik ya\u015f\u0131na dair yasal engeli<br \/>\na\u015fmak demektir. Gen\u00e7 kad\u0131n\u0131n re\u015fit ve yetkin olmadan bir haneyi idaresi birinci<br \/>\ne\u015fin himayesinde ger\u00e7ekle\u015fir, erken ya\u015fta ba\u015flayan do\u011furganl\u0131\u011f\u0131ysa hane<br \/>\nn\u00fcfusunun art\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 garantiler. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt line-height: 115%;\">Ba\u015fl\u0131k uygulamas\u0131n\u0131n yayg\u0131n ve erkekler aras\u0131 sosyo-ekonomik<br \/>\nayr\u0131mlar\u0131n keskin oldu\u011fu \u00e7evrelerde de, aileler k\u0131zlar\u0131n\u0131n ikinci e\u015f olmas\u0131n\u0131<br \/>\n\u00f6nemsemeden, varl\u0131kl\u0131 ailelere kuma olarak evlendirirler. Engelli gen\u00e7<br \/>\nkad\u0131nlar\u0131n da ba\u015fl\u0131k ve \u00e7eyizlerinin azl\u0131\u011f\u0131 nedeniyle kuma verildi\u011fini<br \/>\nbiliyoruz.\u00a0 Suriye m\u00fclteci g\u00f6\u00e7\u00fcn\u00fcn \u00e7okkad\u0131nl\u0131 evlilikler a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan<br \/>\nyaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131 yeni mevzulardan bahsetmeden \u00f6nce, son y\u0131llarda Fas ba\u015fta olmak \u00fczere<br \/>\nKuzey Afrika \u00fclkeleri ve eski Sovyet cumhuriyetlerinden kad\u0131nlarla yap\u0131lan<br \/>\n\u00e7okkad\u0131nl\u0131 s\u0131n\u0131r \u00f6tesi evliliklerin, kad\u0131nlar g\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc olsalar dahi ciddi<br \/>\nbireysel-toplumsal travmalarla, emek s\u00f6m\u00fcr\u00fcs\u00fc ve bir t\u00fcr cinsel k\u00f6lelik<br \/>\nyaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6ylemek gerekir.\u00a0 Dini inan\u00e7lar\u0131n ve toplumsal cinsiyet<br \/>\ne\u015fitsizliklerinin k\u00f6r\u00fckledi\u011fi erkek egemen anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n, erkeklerin bak\u0131m ve<br \/>\ncinsel ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131n, \u00f6l\u00fcm-ekonomik buhran-g\u00f6\u00e7-sava\u015f \u015fartlar\u0131nda namusa halel<br \/>\ngetirmeme ve erkek soy silsilesi yaratma saplant\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ok e\u015fli evliliklerin<br \/>\nnedeni oldu\u011fu a\u00e7\u0131kt\u0131r. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt line-height: 115%;\">Kumal\u0131k Kapitalist Sistemin Bir Sonucudur<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt line-height: 115%;\"><br \/>\nGelelim Suriyeli \u201ce\u015fler meselesine. Her \u015feyden evvel Suriyeli gelin\/ ikinci e\u015f<br \/>\nyeni bir mevzu de\u011fil. Suriyeli kad\u0131nlarla \u00e7oklu evlilikler, bu \u00fclkeye kom\u015fu<br \/>\nb\u00f6lgelerde s\u0131n\u0131r\u0131n \u00e7ekildi\u011fi tarihten itibaren yayg\u0131n olarak uygulanmakta.<br \/>\nA\u015firet\/ kabile gibi sosyal birlikleri da\u011f\u0131tan \u00e7a\u011fda\u015f s\u0131n\u0131rlara ra\u011fmen iki taraftan<br \/>\naileler ve bireyler, siyasi ve ekonomik dinamiklerin \u015fekillendirdi\u011fi talebe<br \/>\ng\u00f6re evlenmeye devam etmi\u015flerdir. Bu evliliklerin bir b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc Suriye devletinin<br \/>\n\u00e7okkad\u0131nl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 resmen uygulamas\u0131 ve bu konuda iki taraftaki yayg\u0131n k\u00fclt\u00fcrel<br \/>\nkabul nedeniyle s\u00fcrm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr. \u00d6zellikle 1980\u2019den sonra T\u00fcrkiye taraf\u0131nda g\u00f6reli<br \/>\nolarak y\u00fckselen ekonomik refah, akrabal\u0131k ili\u015fkileri ve Suriyeli kad\u0131nlar i\u00e7in<br \/>\nistenen ba\u015fl\u0131k ve evlilik masraflar\u0131n\u0131n T\u00fcrkiye\u2019ye k\u0131yasla d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck olmas\u0131, onlar\u0131<br \/>\nT\u00fcrkiye\u2019de evlenmeye ve ikinci, \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc kad\u0131n olmaya s\u00fcr\u00fcklemi\u015ftir. Sava\u015ftan \u00e7ok<br \/>\n\u00f6nce dahi \u00f6zellikle Mardin-Nusaybin, K\u0131z\u0131ltepe ve Urfa\u2019n\u0131n s\u0131n\u0131ra kom\u015fu il\u00e7e ve<br \/>\nk\u00f6ylerinde erkeklerin ikinci veya \u00e7oklu e\u015f tercihleri i\u00e7in Suriyeli kad\u0131nlar\u0131<br \/>\ncazip hale getirmi\u015ftir. 2011 Nisan ay\u0131ndan beri yakla\u015f\u0131k d\u00f6rt milyon<br \/>\nSuriyelinin \u00fclkemize sava\u015f nedeniyle zorunlu g\u00f6\u00e7\u00fc, asl\u0131nda a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131kl\u0131 olarak bir<br \/>\nkad\u0131n ve \u00e7ocuk g\u00f6\u00e7\u00fcd\u00fcr. Ailedeki erkekleri kaybeden veya \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc \u00fclkelere<br \/>\nm\u00fclteci olarak g\u00f6nderen kad\u0131nlar, Suriyeli n\u00fcfusun a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131kl\u0131 k\u0131sm\u0131n\u0131<br \/>\nolu\u015fturmaktad\u0131r. Bu durum Suriyeli yeti\u015fkin ve gen\u00e7 kad\u0131nlar\u0131 T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de zaten<br \/>\nart\u0131\u015f e\u011filiminde olan \u00e7okkad\u0131nl\u0131 evliliklerin hedefi haline getirmi\u015ftir. Bu<br \/>\nnoktada Suriyeli m\u00fcltecilerin k\u00fclt\u00fcrel ve dinsel geleneklerinin de etkisi<br \/>\nb\u00fcy\u00fckt\u00fcr \u00e7okkad\u0131nl\u0131 evliliklerin yasal, her e\u015fin ayn\u0131 yasal stat\u00fc ve haklara<br \/>\nsahip oldu\u011fu Suriye de bir namus ve utan\u00e7 toplumudur. Evlilik Suriye\u2019de de hem<br \/>\nbir sosyal stat\u00fc kazanma, hem de ekonomik-sosyal g\u00fcvence sistemidir. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt line-height: 115%;\">Kad\u0131n \u0130kinci E\u015f Olma<br \/>\nVaadiyle Fuhu\u015fa S\u00fcr\u00fcklenmektedir<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt line-height: 115%;\">\u00d6zellikle sava\u015f nedeniyle evlerinden uzaklara s\u00fcr\u00fcklenen,<br \/>\nailedeki eril kontrol\u00fcn d\u0131\u015f\u0131na \u00e7\u0131karak, fuhu\u015f, zorla \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rma ve emek<br \/>\ns\u00f6m\u00fcr\u00fcs\u00fc gibi \u00e7e\u015fitli ba\u015fka eril tehlikelerin hedefi haline gelen, a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131kl\u0131<br \/>\nolarak kuzeydeki orta ve k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck kentler ile k\u0131rsal b\u00f6lgelerden gelen Suriyeli kad\u0131nlar,<br \/>\nT\u00fcrkiyeli erkeklerle evlenerek m\u00fcltecilik ve zorunlu g\u00f6\u00e7ten kaynaklanan<br \/>\nsorunlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6zeceklerine inand\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015flard\u0131r. K\u0131saca, Suriyeli ikinci e\u015f ve<br \/>\nkumalar mevzuu, Suriyeli kad\u0131nlardan T\u00fcrkiyeli kad\u0131nlara y\u00f6nelmi\u015f bir tehdit<br \/>\nde\u011fil, sava\u015f \u015fartlar\u0131n\u0131n h\u00e2li haz\u0131rdaki toplumsal cinsiyet e\u015fitsizlikleri ile<br \/>\ni\u00e7 i\u00e7e ge\u00e7erek keskinle\u015ftirdi\u011fi bir durumdur.<br \/>\nS\u0131n\u0131r ge\u00e7i\u015flerin kolayla\u015fmas\u0131 ekonomik alanda geni\u015f\u00adletme yaratm\u0131\u015f, \u00fclkelerle<br \/>\nyap\u0131lan antla\u015fmalar \u00e7er\u00e7eve\u00adsinde ithalat ve ihracat rakamlar\u0131 artm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Ekonomik<br \/>\nalandaki geli\u015fme ile birlikte, sosyal alanda da baz\u0131 de\u00ad\u011fi\u015fimler olmu\u015ftur. Bu<br \/>\nyans\u0131man\u0131n ilk g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr sonucu, yurtd\u0131\u015f\u0131ndan getirilen gelinlerdir. Son d\u00f6nemde<br \/>\ng\u00fcndeme gelen uluslararas\u0131 kuma sorununun Silopi\u2019deki yans\u0131malar\u0131n\u0131 ve<br \/>\nkad\u0131nlar\u0131n ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 sorunlar\u0131 tespit etmek amac\u0131yla ara\u015ft\u0131rma yapma gere\u011fi<br \/>\nduyduk.\u00a0 <\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt line-height: 115%;\">Kumal\u0131k Kader<br \/>\nNasip-K\u0131smet Mant\u0131\u011f\u0131yla Kabul Ediliyor<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt line-height: 115%;\">\u00d6ncelikle Silopi\u2019de kuma gelen 130 kad\u0131n adresleri ile<br \/>\nbirlikte tespit edildi. Kotal\u0131 \u00f6rnekle\u00adme y\u00f6ntemiyle, 80 anket Silopili kad\u0131nlara<br \/>\nuyguland\u0131. Kotalar \u00fcst\u00fcne kuma gelen T\u00fcrkiyeli ilk e\u015f, T\u00fcrkiye d\u0131\u015f\u0131ndan gelen<br \/>\ntek e\u015f, T\u00fcrkiye d\u0131\u015f\u0131ndan kuma gelen e\u015f ve T\u00fcrkiyeli kuma gelen e\u015f \u015feklinde<br \/>\nbelirlendi. \u00a0Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n %84\u2019\u00fc g\u00f6r\u00fcc\u00fc<br \/>\nusul\u00fcyle evlenmi\u015f ve %79\u2019u evlili\u011fi kendi r\u0131za\u00ads\u0131yla kabul etmi\u015ftir. %42\u2032 si de<br \/>\ne\u015fiyle ak\u00adrabad\u0131r. %85\u2019i kuma gelece\u011fini bildi\u011fi halde %40\u2019\u0131 nasip-k\u0131smet deyip<br \/>\nkabul etmi\u015ftir. Ailem beni zorlad\u0131 diyenlerin oran\u0131 %15 iken, T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de<br \/>\nya\u015famak is\u00adteyenlerin oran\u0131 sadece\u00a0%5\u00a0dir. Bu sonu\u00e7lardan genel<br \/>\nolarak yurt\u00add\u0131\u015f\u0131ndan gelen kad\u0131nlar\u0131n, T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de evlenmek i\u00e7in \u00f6zel bir<br \/>\ntercihleri olma\u00add\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, evlilikle ilgili genel bir irade de g\u00f6stermediklerini<br \/>\n\u00e7\u0131karabiliriz. Zaten bu kad\u0131nlar\u0131n %63\u2032 \u00fc hayat hakk\u0131nda genel bir de\u00adneyim<br \/>\nelde edemedikleri 20 ya\u015f alt\u0131nda evlenmi\u015ftir. \u00c7o\u011funlu\u011fu, evlendi\u011finde re\u015fit<br \/>\nbile de\u011fildir. Ailelerinden \u00f6\u011fren\u00addikleri evlilik \u015fekli de ayn\u0131d\u0131r. Bu grup<br \/>\nkad\u0131nlar\u0131n %78\u2032 inin aileleri g\u00f6r\u00fcc\u00fc usu\u00adl\u00fc veya berdel ile bir araya<br \/>\ngelmi\u015ftir. \u00a0So\u00adnu\u00e7 olarak s\u00f6ylenebilinir<br \/>\nki, yurtd\u0131\u015f\u0131ndan kuma gelen kad\u0131nlar evlilik konusunda kurbanl\u0131k koyun gibi<br \/>\nhareket etmekte \u00f6nlerine gelen ilk f\u0131rsat\u0131, kuma dahi gitse nasip-k\u0131smet<br \/>\ndiyerek kabul etmektedir. Zira bu grup kad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u00e7o\u011funlu\u011funun, evlilik<br \/>\nkonusunda ve kuma konusunda bir bilgileri yoktur. Ara\u015ft\u0131rmada, hem yabanc\u0131 \u00fclkeden<br \/>\nkuma gelen kad\u0131nlar \u00fczerinde hem de\u00a0T\u00fcrkiye i\u00e7inden kuma gelen<br \/>\nkad\u0131nlarla,\u00a0\u00e7al\u0131\u015fma yap\u0131ld\u0131. Kumal\u0131k da evlilik gibi\u00a0kad\u0131nlar<br \/>\ntaraf\u0131ndan kendi kararlar\u0131 olmas\u0131na ra\u011fmen, \u00e7ok bilin\u00e7li yap\u0131lan bir tercih<br \/>\nde\u011fil. T\u00fcrkiye\u2019den gelen kad\u0131nlar\u0131n\u00a0%90\u2032 \u0131 kuma gelece\u011fini biliyorken<br \/>\nyabanc\u0131 kumalar\u0131n %85\u2019i kuma gelece\u011fini\u00a0biliyormu\u015f,<br \/>\nzorla\u00a0evlenenlerin oran\u0131.\u00a0T\u00fcrkiyeliler i\u00e7in %20 iken, yabanc\u0131lar i\u00e7in<br \/>\n% 15\u2019tir. Genel anlamda\u00a0\u00a0 kad\u0131nlar\u0131n\u00a0yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00f6ylenebilir. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt line-height: 115%;\">Kad\u0131nlar Kumal\u0131\u011fa<br \/>\nMecbur B\u0131rak\u0131lmakta<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt line-height: 115%;\">Di\u011fer\u00a0\u00a0 taraftan\u00a0\u00fcst\u00fcne<br \/>\nkuma\u00a0\u00a0 gelen\u00a0kad\u0131nlar\u0131n\u00a0%55\u2032i\u00a0e\u015flerinin<br \/>\nkuma\u00a0\u00a0 getirece\u011finden\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 haber\u00addarken,<br \/>\nhaberdar\u00a0olan kad\u0131nlar\u0131n %40\u2032 \u0131\u00a0\u00e7ocuklar\u0131ndan<br \/>\ndolay\u0131\u00a0mecburen\u00a0 durumu\u00a0 ka\u00adbullenmek zorunda kal\u00adm\u0131\u015f.<br \/>\nDurumu bilsin veya\u00a0bilmesin, kabullensin veya kabullenme\u00adsin kad\u0131nlar\u0131n<br \/>\n%80\u2032 i \u00fczerine kuma gel\u00addi\u011finde \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fc ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f. Fakat yine de %80\u2019i e\u015finden<br \/>\nayr\u0131lmay\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmemi\u015f. T\u00fcm kad\u0131nlar\u0131n %90\u2019\u0131 kumalar\u0131yla iyi ge\u00e7inirken, %95\u2019i<br \/>\nya\u015fant\u0131s\u0131ndan memnun rakamlar\u0131, ara\u015ft\u0131rman\u0131n ilgi \u00e7eken istatistikleridir. Zira<br \/>\n\u00fczerine kuma gelen ilk e\u015flerin sadece %35\u2019i hayatla\u00adr\u0131n\u0131n daha k\u00f6t\u00fcye gitti\u011fini<br \/>\nbelirtmi\u015ftir. %15 gibi bir oranla e\u015flerinin kendilerine kar\u015f\u0131 ilgilerinin<br \/>\nartt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yleyenler bile var. Bu veriler \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131nda kad\u0131nlar\u0131n kuma-l\u0131\u011fa dair<br \/>\n\u00e7ok problemleri olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00f6y\u00adlenebilir. Bu bize, ana sorunun kumal\u0131k de\u011fil<br \/>\ndi\u011fer problemler oldu\u011funu i\u015faret etmektedir. Y\u00fczeysel bir istatistiksel bak\u0131\u015fla<br \/>\nka\u00add\u0131nlar\u0131n kumal\u0131\u011fa dair g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fleri olumlu olarak d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclse de, asl\u0131nda s\u00f6zl\u00fc<br \/>\ntarih \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131nda kad\u0131nlar\u0131n i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131n bu kadar da ya\u015fan\u0131lanlara \u0131l\u0131ml\u0131<br \/>\nbak\u0131lmad\u0131\u00ad\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6stermektedir.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt line-height: 115%;\">1)<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt line-height: 115%;\"><br \/>\nBir kuma geldi\u011finde di\u011fer kad\u0131n hi\u00e7le\u015ftirildi\u011fini hissetmektedir.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt line-height: 115%;\">2)<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt line-height: 115%;\"><br \/>\nKad\u0131n, e\u015fini \u00f6zellikle cinsel a\u00e7\u0131\u00addan, di\u011fer bir kad\u0131nla payla\u015fmak isteme\u00admektedir.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt line-height: 115%;\">3)<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt line-height: 115%;\"><br \/>\nKad\u0131n, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na kendini feda etmektedir.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt line-height: 115%;\">\u00a04)<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt line-height: 115%;\"> K\u00f6lelik durumu ve\u00a0\u00f6\u011frenilmi\u015f<br \/>\n\u00e7aresizlik<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt line-height: 115%;\">Nasip-k\u0131smet mant\u0131\u011f\u0131yla k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015f\u00adlarda evlenen kad\u0131nlar,<br \/>\nevlilik kurumu\u00adnun asl\u0131nda kendilerine ne gibi sorum\u00adluluklar getirdi\u011finin<br \/>\nfark\u0131nda olmadan ve ya\u015famlar\u0131n\u0131n sonras\u0131n\u0131n nas\u0131l ge\u00e7ire\u00adceklerine dair fikirleri<br \/>\nolmadan, kumal\u0131\u011f\u0131 ya\u015famlar\u0131nda g\u00f6rmelerine ra\u011fmen, kendi i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyalar\u0131nda ne t\u00fcr<br \/>\nbir y\u0131k\u0131ma yol a\u00e7aca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmeden evlilik karar\u0131 vermektedirler. Bu bilin\u00e7siz<br \/>\nhareket, kendi sosyal d\u00fcnyalar\u0131n\u0131 k\u0131s\u0131tlad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n fark\u0131nda olmayan erkekler<br \/>\na\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan bir s\u00f6m\u00fcr\u00fc arac\u0131 olarak kullan\u0131lmaktad\u0131r. Asl\u0131nda kad\u0131nlar\u0131n sosyal<br \/>\nhayata kat\u0131lmamas\u0131, kendi evlerinin k\u00f6leleri olmalar\u0131, di\u011fer kentlerde oldu\u011fu<br \/>\ngibi sosyal ya\u015fam\u0131 fel\u00e7 etmi\u015f, kentin her t\u00fcrl\u00fc \u00fcreti\u00admini k\u0131s\u0131tlam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Kad\u0131nlar<br \/>\nya\u015famdan kopar\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Kapitalist sistemin yaratmak istedi\u011fi kad\u0131n d\u00fczenin bir<br \/>\nmeta haline getirilmi\u015ftir. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt line-height: 115%;\">Kapitalist Sistem<br \/>\nFuhu\u015fu Kad\u0131n \u015eahs\u0131nda Me\u015frula\u015ft\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt line-height: 115%;\">Genel itibar\u0131yla kad\u0131n d\u00fcnyan\u0131n her yerinde sistemin eliyle<br \/>\nd\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fclmeye y\u00f6nelik politikalar hayata ge\u00e7irilmi\u015ftir. \u00d6rnek olarak \u0130ran\u2019da <strong>Muta<\/strong><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt line-height: 115%;\"> ya da <strong>Sighe <\/strong>diye an\u0131lan<br \/>\nk\u0131sa s\u00fcreli ge\u00e7ici evlilik vizesi diye bir \u015fey var, biz buna sevi\u015fme izni de<br \/>\ndiyebiliriz. Mollalardan parayla al\u0131nan bu izin sayesinde<br \/>\nsaatlik\/g\u00fcnl\u00fck\/haftal\u0131k\/ayl\u0131k evlilikler yap\u0131p zina yapmadan sevi\u015febilirler. Evlilik<br \/>\nd\u0131\u015f\u0131 ili\u015fkilerin ta\u015flanarak idama varan korkun\u00e7 uygulamalarla cezaland\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131<br \/>\n\u0130ran\u2019da, \u0130slam Devrimi\u2019nden bu yana, \u015eii kesim aras\u0131nda eski bir gelenek olan<br \/>\nge\u00e7ici evlilikler \u00e7ok yayg\u0131n. \u015eii mezhebinde, erkeklerin, S\u00fcnni mezhebinde<br \/>\noldu\u011fu gibi, e\u015finin r\u0131zas\u0131 olmadan 1\u2019den fazla e\u015f edinme hakk\u0131 yok. Fakat<br \/>\nge\u00e7ici evliliklerin bu durumu ortadan kald\u0131rma amac\u0131yla uyguland\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcyor. Bu<br \/>\nt\u00fcr evlilikte, bir erkek ve evli olmayan bir kad\u0131n belli bir s\u00fcre i\u00e7in kendi<br \/>\naralar\u0131nda evlilik s\u00f6zle\u015fmesi yap\u0131yorlar ve kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda kad\u0131na bir miktar para<br \/>\nveriliyor. Belirlenen s\u00fcre, bir saat de olabiliyor 50 y\u0131l da. Bu s\u00fcre sonunda<br \/>\ntaraflar hi\u00e7bir bo\u015fanma i\u015flemine gerek olmadan ayr\u0131labiliyor ya da \u00e7ocuk olursa<br \/>\nve taraflar isterse kal\u0131c\u0131 evlili\u011fe ge\u00e7ebiliyorlar. B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlara bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda<br \/>\nkad\u0131n D\u00fcnyan\u0131n her yerinde kad\u0131n ya\u015fam\u0131n her alan\u0131nda k\u0131s\u0131tlanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bununla<br \/>\nbirlikte ikinci, \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc e\u015f olma zorunda b\u0131rak\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. 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